I am so very sorry for you. I think that my IVF when we had nothing to transfer was worse than any of the other failures, it is just a devistating thing to go through. I hope you are doing ok. Sending love your way.
I'm a happy wifey to the Big Guy, a researcher, a worker, a mum and a step-mum. tBG and I started trying for a baby together in Feb 2008 (as soon as we got married) but we got diagnosed with secondary infertility in Jan 2009 and I got hit with a premature peri-menopause diagnosis in early 2010. We did 5 IVF cycles between May 09 and June 10. None of them worked. Full blown menopause at 42. Oh, and I'm also in the process of finishing my PhD. Unsurprisingly, my head is way too full so some of the dross is spilling out here.
pundelina AT Hotmail DOT com
PS. It was 4 years between the premature menopause diagnosis and hitting post-menopause. Whoa.
At the end of the IVF road in total we'd ... ~ done 5 stim cycles ~ grown 14 follicles ~ made 8 eggs ~ created 6 embryos ~ had 2 transfers ~ seen lots of BFNs ~ seen 1 chemical BFP
Oh Pundelina, I am so very, very sorry.
ReplyDeleteSending you lots of hugs. Am thinking of you.
Anon comment above was from me - accidentally clicked the wrong button.
ReplyDeleteMy heart is breaking for you.
xo
A
Oh, Pundelina, I am so sorry. Thinking of you and sending you lots of love and light.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Maddy
What a terrible disappointment! I'm so sorry. I'm thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteI so sorry Pundelina. That is incredibly dissapointing news. My thoughts are withyou.
ReplyDeleteSo, so very sorry to hear that. So, so very sorry for you. My heart is broken for you. That's all I have, (hugs) xox
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry for you. I think that my IVF when we had nothing to transfer was worse than any of the other failures, it is just a devistating thing to go through. I hope you are doing ok. Sending love your way.
ReplyDeleteThis is so heartbreaking! I'm so sorry you have to go through all this madness. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteOh No! I am so sorry to hear that.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you xx
I am genuinely sorry, Pundy. :( It's heartbreakingly unfair. Keeping you in my thoughts...
ReplyDeleteMiserably sad at this....
ReplyDelete:-(
That sucks! I'm sorry.
ReplyDeleteI wish I had the right words. I am so sorry to hear this. Keeping you in my heart and in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry Pundelina. Do they have any different ideas to try for next time?
ReplyDeleteSending you lots of love and strength. I'm so sorry that life has to suck like this.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry. I'm just aching for you. I hope the next few months bring you a new strength.
ReplyDeleteJust not fair, at all. Lots of love for you, Pundy...
ReplyDeleteSo sorry. :( Hugs.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. Thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry to hear this. Thinking of you.
ReplyDeleteKim
Oh Pundelina it's not fricking fair:( It's not, it's not, it's not. I'm so sorry.
ReplyDeletePundelina, coming via LFCA. I'm so sorry, this result seems more cruel than a traditional bfn. And its so unfair and cruel. So sorry.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry. This is so very unfair.
ReplyDeleteOh...how wretched. I'm so deeply, deeply sorry.
ReplyDeleteSending big love
ReplyDeleteBIGGEST LOVE
and oh love for your tender battered heart. What shit shit this is. I am so sorry.
To say I wish it were different is a colossal understatement.
hugs to you,
Kate
Every loss hurts like hell.
ReplyDeleteOH, that sucks. I am so sorry.
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