If you haven't read this post from Mel, then you should. It's awesome. I'm going to quote the best part here.
"Essentially what we’re asking women to do, and shaming them when they can’t, is to be superwomen. We should not get pregnant as teens because that would not be socially responsible, and we’d be a burden on the system because we’d possibly require social assistance. THEN we should go to college and set ourselves up for a sweet career because women! can! do! anything! and! they! should! do! everything! THEN right as we’re building our careers, we should settle down, preferably with a man because then we’ll be able to get right into the unassisted babymaking (not that they’re making any heterosexist commentary with these campaigns, right?), while working the full time job. THEN, because we’re young and fecund, we’ll have said baby, while not taking any time off (because maternity leave is annoying to everyone judging by the sighs people use when they discuss someone in their office going on maternity leave) but breastfeeding exclusively (because don’t you love your baby?) while simultaneously spinning multiple assignments at work. And volunteering because you don’t want to be a dick and not volunteer. And hosting dinner parties. And still having sex with your partner (we’re assuming he’s a man — though don’t call us heterosexist just because we are). And making dinner for that widow at church. And calling your mother. And throwing a pinterest birthday party!"
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